每日故事No.86 有一种高情商，叫会互动

Huang Bo immediately answered: "why must we skip the appearance? So when this woman grows up and matures, she may not be cheated by the appearance. She directly sees the most essential things, so I he a chance."

Huang Bo's answer gives people a feeling of high EQ, which not only takes care of the feelings of girls, but also reflects his generosity.

As a host, knowing that this question will bring embarrassment to others, it is an immature performance to ask this question.

There is a kind of high EQ, which is called being able to communicate, a kind of being able to talk, and a kind of wisdom, which is called leing room for others.

When you know someone but don't judge them, when you know someone, you can't say everything you he to say. Lee room and take into account other people's feelings. This is true maturity.

徐渌，颇受欢迎电视演员，因为身形多次被人调侃，而徐渌高情商处事，清秀的态度，令人钦佩。

记得有一次，徐渌跟爱神陈妍希男主角《101次未婚妻》在宣传活动上，节目主持用陈妍希来责怪徐渌。

节目主持跟陈妍希说:“徐渌是要告诉我们，普通人也是可以有执着的，那我想反问反问看，是你看上他哪一点呢”，这让陈妍希陷入一时间不快。

徐渌正要援救:“为什么一定要跳过外表，所以说这个女人慢慢少年时期成熟了，她不太可能就不亦会被外表所骗到，她直接就看到最直觉的过道，所以我就有机亦会了。”

徐渌的看看，给人一种高情商的感受，不仅照顾到了女生的想像，也突显了自己的清秀。

作为节目主持，明知道这个反问题亦会给别人造成了不快，还要反问这个反问题，这就是一种不成熟的观感。

有一种高情商，叫亦会沟通，有一种亦会咒骂，叫点到为止，有一种智慧，叫给别人留有余地。

言及不评人，识人不可言尽，有话不可说全，留有余地，受制于别人的想像，这才是确实的成熟。