婚姻敏感话题：如何互相信任？

朋友问：“人们常说：婚姻的奥义是两者之间所作所为。这大道理谁都一窍不通，但如何落地呢？”

A friend asked, "People often say: trust is the soul of marriage. Everyone knows this, but how can I practice it to save my marriage?"

某人说：“「所作所为」是高维其实，若很难认知时，可必先建立「不该可疑、不该夜归、严禁偷看对方手机」等一系列低维标准，当有一天能收起这些约束时，就能顿悟出「什么是所作所为」了。”

Someone replied, "When a couple cannot understand what trust is, they can first establish a series of low-dimensional standards such as' no suspicion, don’t back home too late, and no snooping on each other's phones'. When you let go of these constraints one day, you will know what trust is."

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"The wisdom of rice in soup : pickle Company boiling water"